why do i feel nervous in front of the public and how do i overcome the nervousness

Why do I feel so nervous in front of the public?

        Not confident.

When I was in front, I felt very nervous because too many who look at and focus only on us immediately. All that has been planned to be delivered to the public will disappear by itself and my tongue will become numb to speak. Fear of making mistakes always have in mind.

        Afraid to people will laugh with me

I am so afraid to people will laugh with me when I was in the front because I always felt inferior. I always feel myself not perfect and that’s why there’s shame. In addition, I also feel afraid to people laugh with me when I make mistake in pronouncing the word. This is because I am not good at speaking in English.

        Shy

When I in front, I felt very embarrassed because the audience will only focus on me. I would have lost all focus and my voice will become increasingly slow. This condition will cause so bored to the audience.

How do I overcome the nervousness?

        Redefine the audience

Redefine the audience generally means changing how to see the audience. Instead of seeing them as lecturers who are evaluating, maybe we can convince you that they are fellow students who are in queue to present after this. They are all equally nervous so there is no reason why we should be too. Besides that, throw all sense of nervousness and try to return confidence and always think positive.

        More practice

I need more practice to talk in front of audience or people. When I was always at the front, I might be the confident and able to escape the sense of shame lies within me. In addition, I will try to ignore what people want to say and try my best. I will also try to always to think positive because in the world no one is perfect except God Almighty.

        Invest in visual aids

Imagine a presentation with beautiful PowerPoint slides and even more impressive notes given to each of my audience members. Half of the time, their eyes will not be on me. They will read through the notes and my fancy slides. This will help a lot as i can then speak to the people who are not looking at me. When they look at me, i just change their focus to other people who are not looking. Giving a speech to people who are not looking at you is always easier.

How do I communicate effectively with friends, lecturers and my family members?

Be a great listener.

• This will help you understand exactly what you are being asked and how you should answer. You also need to respond positively to the encouraging advice. Therefore you will be more reliable and liked by your friends. If they tell their problems, you should keep them secret to avoid any misunderstanding.

ü                      Teamwork.

• Effective communication and teamwork are closely related. For a team to work productively and efficiently, members have to communicate effectively with one another. Effective communication is about conveying your message to other people clearly and also about receiving complete information that others are sending to you.

ü                        Positive Attitude

• Maintaining a positive attitude, as well as a positive tone, when speaking with others in the school       environment is one of the most effective communication strategies. Teachers must stay positive with their students instead of being negative about their failures. Students must also know how to keep a positive attitude when dealing with their teachers and peers. Students will find success in the classroom if they learn to bring up their questions, comments and concerns to those in the classroom with them with positive energy.

How Did I adapt With New Environment In The Collage?

·         Can communicate

Communication is one medium which involves the interaction between two people or more. It is important for individuals to understand the type of communication whether it is a one-way or two-way communication. As new students should be prepared from emotional and mental aspects in which the individual normally would be involved with one-way communication. Besides that, if the student thinks she/he in the right site, she/he needs speech but to speak professionally. The age difference is one of the issues in some colleges. Thus, a new student must know how to interact with different types of layers without feeling awkward and should always be humble and not arrogant.

·         Support from other

After entering the new environment, it is important for individuals to have a support group. This is because, first week is the week that may put pressure on some people and need time to adapt. So get support and help in terms of mental and emotional aspects of your support group. Support groups are as parents, close friends and partners. Look for the right people to express what is loaded in your mind. With the support of significant people it can help motivate the individual and the individual will feel valued and are supported.

·         Join the activity in the collage

New students should also be exposing themselves to attend the activities held at the college. This will give a positive imputed to them. Other than that, the presence of this activity also to strengthen the relationship between new students and the people around them, then students should be able to adapt to life in college.

·         New skill learning

The student should be adapt themself by learning skills in the college, which is more efficient, faster and need more attention during the class. In addition, students must provide their own reference materials such as additional books and learning equipment. Besides that, the student should also regularly review the lesson because it is important for students to prepare the quiz, tests and more importantly the final exams.

How Can I Improve My Basic Knowledge In English Language?

English language is one language that very hard to learn if we don’t have any knowledge about it, especially for the person Malay as we. This is because we only use Malay language in my life. So, there are many ways to improve my level of English.

The one of the tips is do 5 until 10 minutes listening every day. I can watch programs that use English language such as Harry Potter, Cinderella, Supernatural or Transformer. Defiantly it will help me.

Other than that, I also have to practice using English language in my daily life; even I have broken English. Just try to say the words correctly. If I don't know how to pronounce the words, I can refer to the dictionary. This is because, dictionary also provide the pronunciation of the words.

Moreover, I can increase my writing style. Do the practice of write essays in English once a week. If I want better results, I will make an exercise once a day. When I learn a language, listening, speaking and writing are important, but reading can also be very helpful.

Because of that, I also can read a comic book or newspaper. I can read as fast or as slowly as I like. I can read ten pages in 30 minutes, or take one hour to explore just one page. It doesn't matter.  

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